[well now that that's confirmed: you're fucked, tbh]
I don't know what sort of relationship you have. But you should know it's impossible to come back from that knowledge once you've shared it. Neither of you will be the same.
If it was me, and he was here — I would move on for both of our sakes.
It's an important life skill. Right there with the kindness of pretending you didn't see something that might embarrass someone, much less addressing it.
What do you think happens at parties? It's all power games. The host who needs everything you can give but refuses to ask for it, all the guests in dark corners watching them with interest. And then you, who won't go, letting it happen.
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I don't think you'd ask me about this otherwise.
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I don't know what sort of relationship you have. But you should know it's impossible to come back from that knowledge once you've shared it. Neither of you will be the same.
If it was me, and he was here — I would move on for both of our sakes.
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You're avoiding this subject, I can tell. I won't push because I understand. But you asked for my opinion and I gave it to you.
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Right there with the kindness of pretending you didn't see something that might embarrass someone, much less addressing it.
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Going to parties is an important life skill? I don't think so.
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The host who needs everything you can give but refuses to ask for it, all the guests in dark corners watching them with interest.
And then you, who won't go, letting it happen.
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Well, good luck.